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Talking To Your Child About Masturbation

Talking To Your Child About Masturbation

There is no ‘correct age’ to discuss masturbation with your child. As a parent, you know your child best, but these conversations are paramount to a child’s–and adult’s–healthy sex life. Dr. Rachel Wright, psychotherapist, states that you should “have the conversations when you feel it will be the most beneficial instead of paying attention to a specific age.” Some toddlers and preschoolers begin touching their genitals at a young age, others aren’t seen to do this until older. If you notice this, then this is the best time to discuss masturbation with your child. If you have not noticed your child doing this, then the best time to discuss this with them is as they are nearing puberty, family therapist Whitney states. When you feel the time has come to begin these discussions, the major points to hit are: Normalize masturbation, set boundaries around masturbating, and the safety and health benefits of masturbation.

The main point of having this conversation is to normalize the act and teach about safety, and consent. There is no need to go into detail about masturbation, the main purpose of this conversation is to normalize it, regardless of the child’s age. Make sure to reinforce that there is nothing wrong with it; that it is a healthy thing to do and a great way to learn about your body. It is likely that your child may respond in a negative way, telling you that it’s ‘embarrassing’ to discuss, but that is okay. The importance is making “the point that self-pleasuring is nothing to be ashamed of,” Whitney says. When having this conversation, make sure to keep it calm but casual, a safe and comfortable environment may make your child more receptive to the talk.

The Pandemic’s Impact on our Relationships and Identities

The Pandemic’s Impact on our Relationships and Identities

In 2022, now two years into the pandemic of COVID-19, we are still living in unprecedented times. As society slowly transitions back to “normal” with the development of vaccines and herd immunity, we are just now beginning to see changes emerging in the ways in which we live our lives. In comparing our lives in 2019 to now, we can identify shifts in what’s important to us and what we value, and these changes can impact our day-to-day lives and the expression of our identities.

One example of these changes that we are seeing nationwide is a slight shift in sexual orientation. This is not to say that the COVID-19 virus shifts who people are attracted to, but rather that the societal changes that we have experienced as a result of the pandemic affect the way in which we know ourselves. In one way, the stay-at-home order and reduced socialization allowed space for many people to reconnect with themselves outside of their busy lives. This connection allowed for exploration into past relationships, personal desires and behaviors, and previous experiences that shape who they are. For some people, this meant exploring the possibility of having more queer attraction than they had previously thought. In another way, these changes allowed more space from judgment for exploration, allowing people to explore their attraction through media, dating apps, and conversations with others that would not have been able to happen outside of this environment.

Mood-Making Music: How Sex Playlists Can Spice Things Up

Mood-Making Music: How Sex Playlists Can Spice Things Up

Researchers have long studied the effects of music, particularly how music can be used as a tool to regulate emotional and physical expression of self. For example, many people use slow, emotional music to experience their sadness, or upbeat music to enhance their happiness. One common use of music, one that has been far less researched, is music on a sex playlist. Music can be used during sex to increase emotional expression as well as “set the mood” for particular sexual experiences.

Sex playlists themselves can be comprised of many different genres and moods, depending on the desired effects. With the rise of streaming platforms like Spotify, previous methods of curating a playlist (like burning a CD or recording a mixtape) for a particular mood has been replaced with constantly updating, giant catalogs of sexy tunes, ready at your fingertips at all moments–be wary, however of not being a premium subscriber to these streaming platforms as you may be subjected to advertisements mid-coitus. These platforms will even curate their own sex playlists for you, such as “90s Baby Makers” and “Bedroom Jams” on Spotify. There are different genres that these playlists or artists can fall into, and typically people will have a preference for a particular genre if they enjoy listening to music during sex. Common preferences include hip hop, rap, and R&B, and then for those with less taste, Ed Sheeran. These genres are most popular for their intense energy and passionate lyricism, as well as references to sexuality. Typically during sex, sessions to rap music lean a little more into the BDSM/rough sex territory while R&B sex is slower and more passionate.

Intimacy Coordinators: Hollywood’s Sex Directors

Intimacy Coordinators: Hollywood’s Sex Directors

In a world saturated with sensual media and the popular notion that “sex sells,” it shouldn’t come as a surprise that creating profitable sex scenes has become an industry of its own. Now, with the required certification, people can make a career as an intimacy coordinator, wherein they supervise, direct, and choreograph romance and sex scenes in popular media including television, film, and music videos.

Amanda Blumenthal, owner of Intimacy Professionals Association and intimacy coordinator for shows like Euphoria, describes the process of entering this career. For her, becoming an intimacy coordinator was the perfect blend of sex-positive education and the film industry. She attributes the rise of this field to third-wave feminist movements such as the #MeToo movement, which drew attention to the need for regulated, consensual intimacy within the making of popular media. Especially with the history of sexual harassment in Hollywood, having an intimacy coordinator present as an advocate for safety and support is necessary for the well-being of the actors.

Pornographic or Educational? Discussing "Naked Attraction"

Pornographic or Educational? Discussing "Naked Attraction"

British TV is filled with iconic series, examples of these include: Come Dine With Me, Faulty Towers, and Only Fools and Horses. Whilst these series have been met with much appreciation, one such series that first aired in 2016 was not met with such a warm audience… On July 25th Naked Attraction came to our screens. Put simply, Naked Attraction is a dating show with multiple rounds in which one person is eliminated by the person looking for a partner. Each contestant starts off in a colored box, and during each round, the box is lifted higher until we see their face and can hear their voice. What makes this show stand out? The contestants are completely naked. Which begs the question: Is Naked Attraction a genuinely educational and representational tool for sexuality or is it harmful and should be removed from TV?

One thing to note is that Naked Attraction’s diversity changes throughout the series. In the first season, it would be hard to claim that there is representation, with the majority of vulvas being “‘neat and tucked’' as well as minimal body or pubic hair being displayed on the contestant. Furthermore, in the first few episodes host, Anna Richardson mistakenly refers to the vulva as a vagina, though this is not a huge issue, on a show about sex and sexual attraction you would have thought the correct anatomy would be discussed. Season 2 and beyond, however, do a far better job at providing actual representation. Not only is the existence of pubic and body hair normalized on the show, but so are representations of all sexualities and relationships.

Seeing Red: Why Is Red Associated with Sex?

Seeing Red: Why Is Red Associated with Sex?

A few weeks ago, I had the pleasure of being invited to see Moulin Rouge! in London. As someone who had never seen the film, I had no idea what awaited me behind the door. Inside the theatre room was tons and tons of red. Red curtains, red hearts, red fairy lights, red projector lights, and red seats. You name an object and it was most likely red. It was then I was informed that the general plot revolved around sex, secrets, and prostitution. It was this that made me wonder, why is red associated with sex? This article aims to uncover the reason why red is deemed to be a sexy colour.

One explanation is that human societies have paired red and feeling desire for such a long time, that it is almost conditioned to think of them together. Some scholars have claimed that red ochre (pigments used for paint) was used in fertility rituals by early humans, with the belief that it may have been painted onto women’s bodies and faces. Red and marriage can also be seen mentioned in Rigveda, an ancient Hindu text that is at least 3,500 years old. Modern media and books have also be seen to use red in the context of sex. Hawthorn’s The Scarlet Letter (in which I must admit I have only seen its film reboot, Easy A) is an example where red is used to convey sex and desire. For those unfamiliar, the protagonist is made to wear a scarlet A to signify adultery for giving birth out of wedlock. The red-light district is another obvious example.

"Stealthing": Is It Illegal? What To Do If It Happens To You

 "Stealthing": Is It Illegal? What To Do If It Happens To You

Stealthing is when a partner secretly removes a condom during sex without the other person’s consent. Stealthing is a form of sexual assault or rape, and it’s not something to be taken lightly. It’s assumed that the practice has been around for as long as condoms have existed. A person may engage in stealthing because they desire to exert power and control over their partner; they may use the excuse that it makes them feel “closer” to you without the barrier of a condom. Men who stealth see their victims as possessions rather than people who have the right to make their own consensual decisions about sex. No matter how a person may try to explain themselves out of stealthing, the act is never okay. This is because stealthing is disrespecting someone’s trust for the other person’s sexual gain — and that is never ok. Sex can be a regular part of any relationship. Two (or more) people engage in something consensual and meaningful to them, regardless of whether they are in a long-term relationship. The keyword here is consent- every sex act should always be consensual. Removing a condom without your partner’s knowledge is not consensual and is always wrong. Sex should always be rooted in consent and should never include actions that one partner does not consent to. If you engage in a sex act that your partner does not consent to, this is considered rape. It’s reasonable to think that all scenarios involving rape are nonconsensual, but when it comes to stealthing, it’s only illegal in California! If you find yourself a victim of stealthing, though, don’t fret. We at SHA are here to guide you on what to do if it happens to you. First, we will begin with a review of why stealthing is only illegal in California.

Understanding and Defining Bisexuality

Understanding and Defining Bisexuality

Bisexuality has been used to describe a variety of different identities throughout its history, making it a widely used and, at times, controversial term. Bi101 works to define and exhibit bisexuality in order to reduce misconceptions and the stigma around the term. According to this site, bisexuality includes both heterosexual and homosexual attractions, but it can also be used to refer to a wider variety of attractions. Alternative definitions include “attraction to same and other genders” and “attraction to all sexes and genders.” You may also hear two separate terms, bisexual and biromantic, which differentiate between sexual and romantic attraction to these different genders. Bisexuality is fluid and can change and shift throughout a person’s life, so at different times they may experience attraction to different people.

Current Affairs: What the Biden Administration is Doing for Trans Individuals

Current Affairs: What the Biden Administration is Doing for Trans Individuals

On Transgender Awareness Day, March 31st, 2022, the White House gave a press release in support of this national outline and to outline the “support the mental health of transgender children, remove barriers that transgender people face accessing critical government services, and improve the visibility of transgender people in our nation’s data.” These three critical points work to move our country toward understanding and improving equality. Acknowledging the role of gender in the lives of children is a huge step in this direction, which has also been controversial throughout history. Even today, Republican legislators across the country are fighting against gender and sexuality education for children, arguing that teaching concepts like homosexuality and gender transitions have the power to influence children negatively. Others, myself included, argue that supporting children in their developing identities is critical to the growth of happy, loving individuals.

Five Stages of Relationships

Five Stages of Relationships

When entering a new relationship, being fully aware of what may be in store for you and your partner can ease the process, making each step feel less daunting and challenging for you to overcome together. Below is a list of the five stages in a relationship, and understanding them can benefit the relationship significantly. To prepare for the challenges to come, you can look inwards to understand how you yourself may act in each of these stages to better prepare yourself to face them. And through doing this, you and your partner can connect on a deeper level and work to enjoy the relationship at every stage, even the more difficult ones.

Top Children’s Sex Ed Books 

Top Children’s Sex Ed Books 

Sexuality is an essential topic of conversation when raising healthy, confident-minded children. Moreover, having open discussions about sexuality ensures that your child will have a sense of body positivity regarding their own body and the bodies of those around them. The “birds and the bees” talk shouldn't be an uncomfortable one-time occurrence; it should be an ongoing open conversation between you and your child that spans years. Sex education in our country is, unfortunately, not always adequate in the schooling system and often does not start until some children have already been exposed to or experienced aspects of sexuality. For this reason, it’s essential to start sex education with your children within your own home and at an early age. Sex and sexuality are a part of life—it’s crucial to provide your child with the tools they need to understand themselves and the world around them. It’s also worth acknowledging that many parents did not receive proper sex education and may not know where to start with sex ed for their children. For many adults, their sex education came from grade-school videos about puberty and is often solely heteronormative and uplifts biases. Don’t fret if your sex education is lacking because many tools can help you enhance both your and your child’s sex education.

How Kink Can Be Used To Heal From Sexual Trauma 

How Kink Can Be Used To Heal From Sexual Trauma 

To most, kink refers to any non-traditional sex. This can include anything from bondage to roleplay, to power exchange. Kink can also be participated in for numerous reasons, for some it may be solely for pleasure. But for others, kink has been a way to heal trauma. In no way it is a replacement for therapy or other mental healthcare but is something that can be participated in whilst undergoing therapy. This article will aim to understand how kink can be used to heal sexual trauma and allow those who have experienced sexual trauma to reclaim sexual confidence.

One piece explains that “often, the appeal of kink for sexual assault survivors is the opportunity to feel empowered, respected, and safe.” The ways in which kink can assist with healing vary from person to person as the healing process is highly personal and subjective. Another study further states that kink and BDSM practices may be appealing to those healing in the way kink has a straightforward negotiation, execution, and aftercare scene—with there being correlations between the stages of trauma healing therapies and the three phases of a kink scene.

Language Update: GSRD is More Inclusive than LGBTQ+

Language Update: GSRD is More Inclusive than LGBTQ+

First, the relationships between sexuality and gender identity are built on antiquated ideas of what each is. Only in recent decades have we created terminology to address the lived experiences of many individuals, and much of our lexicon is still behind. One issue with sexuality terms such as “lesbian” and “gay” is that they rely on gender identity to apply to relationships. For example, the term “lesbian” necessitates that the person is women-identifying and attracted to other women-identifying people. This definition does not take into account biology, but we do know that people may experience different attractions based on sex organs as well, regardless of the gender identity of that person.

To simplify this example, we have evolved a much too diverse network of gender identities and sexualities to any longer be encompassed in the term LGBTQ+, no matter how many more letters are added. As it stands, this term creates specific and exclusionary categories for identities and lumps all others into the Q+ section. Dr. Barker also notes that this term only encapsulates a white, Western idea of how gender and sexuality function, discounting the experiences of the many.

I Want to Pay for Porn, Where Do I Start?

I Want to Pay for Porn, Where Do I Start?

Most of us have been consuming porn since our teenage years, around the time we first discovered the joys of masturbation. Most of us also probably frequented porn sites with no paywalls like Pornhub or Xhamster. These porn sites are problematic because they often feature videos that are produced unethically. Unethical porn can signal a plethora of different things. For example, on sites like Pornhub performers are usually not compensated for their videos, and often times are forced to fake their pleasure for the camera. The porn is not authentic and it often time plays on male-gaze stereotypes in which the videos are centered around male pleasure rather than equal pleasure for everyone involved in the scene. When you use a website like PornHub to view un-paywalled porn for free—especially the kind made by performers who run their own business—you’re stealing from people whose careers are deeply stigmatized and whose jobs are, if not criminalized, heavily regulated and censored by puritanical legislation designed to keep sex workers in unsafe and unfairly compensated working conditions. One way to combat this injustice faced by sex workers is to start paying for your porn! Pay for porn sites follow a more ethical framework for producing porn and allow the performer to have more control over the scenes they produce. Moreover, paying for porn sites allows for fair compensation for workers. If audiences start consuming their porn in an ethical fashion, both the porn industry and the stigma surrounding it would improve.

Ignorance is Not Bliss: Florida's "Don't Say Gay" Bill

Ignorance is Not Bliss: Florida's "Don't Say Gay" Bill

On March 8th, 2022, in the Florida Senate, legislators joined the state House in passing a bill that serves to prevent LGBTQ+ instruction in lower education. The “Parental Rights in Education” bill has been referred to by its opposers as the “Don’t Say Gay” bill, noting the strict prohibition of discussing sexual orientation or gender identity in any Kindergarten through third-grade classroom. The bill also limits discussion of sexuality to “age-appropriate content” which can be applied to all grade levels to restrict LGBTQ+ topics for discussion. Republican and other conservative supporters claim that this bill is designed to keep parents informed about the education of their children, but its isolation of LGBTQ+ identity is a clear signal of discrimination on the basis of gender and sexual orientation.

Florida’s state education curriculum does not include these topics as a part of their comprehensive health education, so the law would mostly function to set the precedent that spectrums of gender and sexuality could be seen as inappropriate subject matter for children. Additionally, it intentionally does not provide teachers with a welcoming and comprehensive answer to questions that may be asked by students about these topics. Without this programming, teachers must choose to not answer such questions or to share personal beliefs with students, which may be even more harmful to children. This bill recently shifted to specifically target lesson plans, leaving the legality of the discussion up in the air. As if that wasn’t enough, this bill would allow parents to sue teachers and schools who speak about these identities.

What To Expect in Sex Therapy

What To Expect in Sex Therapy

Many people may experience problems with sex at some point in their life, though some issues can be resolved without the need for intervention, others may find they need additional support from a certified sex therapist. Reasons for going to a sex therapist can include lack of desire, difficulty having an orgasm, pain during sex, inability to have penetrative sex, difficulty keeping an erection, and premature ejaculation. This article aims to give a brief outline as to what can be expected during a sex therapy session. Whatever difficulty it is you are facing, be reassured that you are not alone.

Be sure to go into your first sex therapy session knowing you may discuss your sexual health, relationship, and trauma history, states Gretchen Blycker, a sex and couples therapist. Especially in your first session, your therapist will need to get a sense of the context that is surrounding your concerns, this can and may include the discussion on topics you may find uncomfortable. Sex therapy can look similar to traditional therapy forms, but with a direct focus on sexuality in addition to and in conjunction with the uneasiness or worries that brought you to therapy. “Generally, when attending a therapy session with sexuality as your primary concern, you can expect your therapist to gently inquire around what has been bothering you, and what you would like to be different,” says Laura Federico, licensed clinical social worker.

Hit Me Baby One More Time: Discussing Impact Play

Impact play can be summarised as a “practice where one partner strikes another with their hands or toy for sexual gratification.” Examples of this range from the commonly shown spanking, whipping, or flogging. This article will give a basic overview of the science behind enjoying spanking, how to do it safely, and other tips and tricks. A strike on your butt, upper thighs, or other erogenous zones can stimulate your skin's nerve receptors and can trigger the release of endorphins and dopamine. Sanda Lamorgese, author of Switch: Time for a Change further states that for some, the taboo vibes of getting spanked can also be a turn-on.

Note first that impact play does NOT have to be extreme—you have the right to define the intensity of the action to whatever you are most comfortable with. Since impact play falls under what is considered “‘risk play’”, it is imperative that it remains a constant consensual activity with you and your sexual partner—it should never happen without being discussed prior, and the intensity should, under no circumstance, go beyond what you have stated you are comfortable with. The spanking or “punishment” scene in  50 Shades of Grey shows the importance of respecting limitations and allowing a set moment to have consent and boundaries discussed before starting impact play. If you are unfamiliar with the book or film, I would firstly not ever recommend it. But for those curious, the scene involves “submissive” Anna to be seen distressed and visibly upset, whilst “dominant” Chrisitan continues to spank her with a belt. There are many healthy and ethical ways to combine sex and pain, but using 50 Shades as a sex-manual is in no way going to give you an ethical or genuinely useful guide. To see the other ways that 50 Shades has depicted BDSM in an unrealistic or true manner, check out our lovely  Alyssa’s blog! 

Consent is by far the most important element to safely carrying out impact play. An additionally important concept is on what part of the body should receive impact sensations. Candice Smith, intimacy coach and cofounder of the KinkKit suggests you start with the buttocks and inner thighs due to the protective fat and muscle. Other parts of the body have thinner skin or cover vital organs that can be damaged with less effort. Daniel Saynt, founder of NSFW (The New Society For Wellness), explains that you should also make sure to avoid the spine, tummy, and lower back, as well as the ears, head, feet, and calves, should further be avoided. You can find a graphic of where is and isn’t okay to hit here!

Saynt further suggests that in terms of consent and negotiation, you may want to enact the stoplight system. “During the stoplight system, ‘red’ signifies stop and care, and ‘yellow’ signifies slow down.” Alternatively, some may find they lose their ability to speak during a moment of sensation overload, this is why establishing a non-verbal safety word may be helpful. Examples of this include tapping the bedside table three times or clapping your hands four times. This is especially useful if you are combining impact play with something like a ball-gag which restricts your ability to speak. Finally, before taking part in impact play, you may find it useful to create a “pain scale.” This involves using a number scale to communicate how much impact you can or want to take. “Begin with a few light swipes and then have your partner tell you the number of pain they’re feeling, plus what number they’d like to get to in that scene,” says Saynt. 

WAYS TO PRACTICE IMPACT PLAY 

If you are brand new to impact play, you can start by practicing some smacks on a pillow using a flat palm. Get used to the momentum and strength you naturally give. Then move on to lightly spank the fleshy part of your partner’s body. Once again, take this slowly and communicate between each slap. 

One of the most common ways to practice impact play is slapping. This involves a “hand spanking” that happens on body parts other than the buttocks, places that can be slapped can involve the thighs and face cheeks. Make sure to start with light slaps before moving on to stronger ones, as if you go too hard with this, there is the potential to knock out your partner. 

Spanking not only can be done with your hand, but implements like a belt, paddle, or slapper. These implements can bring along different sensations, a paddle may give a ‘thuddy’ sensation, whereas a cane feels more like a sting. Note that using a cane aggressively can result in welts—go light for your first time using it and slowly work your way up to more impactful strikes. 

Punching and kicking are other slightly heavier ways to practice impact play. With these methods, make sure to keep it light. Furthermore, make sure to stay away from the face, spine, or any other major organs.

Flogging and whipping are deemed to be a more intense form of impact play, and generally should be reserved for those with skill and experience. Whipping especially should be reserved for those with experience, if carried out incorrectly—or correctly depending on what you are seeking—it can result in open gashes on your skin. 

After any form of impact play, aftercare is a must. Not only should this include physical care such as icing any bruises or rehydrating, but emotional. Make sure to debrief what just happened, share what you liked or perhaps didn’t like, and communicate how you are feeling at that present moment. 

Due to impact play being a form of risk play, it is crucial that you keep yourself regularly educated on how to carry it out. There are a variety of online communities like FetLife or Mojo Upgrade that can provide educational videos and resources. Be honest with yourself about your limitations of knowledge about impact play, then take time to dive into these resources and fill those gaps! As always, consent and negotiation are imperative for all impact play to be carried out in the safest manner possible—know that some people may love impact play, others may feel unsure about their preference, and others may want to avoid it all together—and every one of these is a valid feeling! If you’re interested in learning more about the world of kink, check out SHA’s Kink-Informed Certificate program taught by the Supernova of Kink herself, Midori.

By Stephanie McCartney

Learning To Redefine Sex

Learning To Redefine Sex

Time and time again, the sex education system has failed us. Schools throw around the word “‘sex”’ but only ever seem to use it in the context of penetrative means penis in vagina sex. This then can lead to the false assumption that the only thing that counts as sex is penetration, this is absolutely not true at all. Sex is truly what you define it to be, some may still choose to decide that penetrative sex is their personal definition, and that is okay! Others may find “outercourse,” more appropriate for their boundaries. There is additionally the concept of “‘othercourse’” which briefly speaking, refers to “creative play that is not limited to, or focused on intercourse.” Othercourse also makes it clear that an orgasm is not the end goal, which works well in relieving performance pressure whilst allowing the opportunity to explore your and your partners’ bodies. Sex can therefore be seen as an umbrella term, my definition of sex may be different from yours— every view is valid!

I will be honest and say that it has taken me a long time to learn how to redefine sex. For 19 years I was under the belief that the only thing that could count as sex for me (a heterosexual female) was penetrative penis in vagina. The typical university experience didn’t do me any additional favors. Games of Never Have I Ever in Freshers week (the first week of starting university here in the UK!) quickly turned into sexual inquiries and listening to embarrassing sex stories of these 11 strangers immediately led me to question why I hadn’t had sex, concluding that there was something was wrong with me. There was and is nothing wrong with me, but discussion and representation of sex in the media only seemed to show penetrative sex, and didn’t even do a good job of realistically depicting that. Growing up in a generation surrounded by social media and technology, it is no wonder I feel the trap of having a narrow understanding of sex.

A Brief History of “Sex Addiction”

A Brief History of “Sex Addiction”

Sex addiction seems to make sense. Due to our society’s ingrained morals, we are told that too much of a good thing is bad, that this is addiction. From a young age, we are warned of the dangers of drugs and alcohol through programs such as D.A.R.E. We understand drugs and alcohol to be inherently bad because of the obvious negative physical effects. But sex? Is too much sex a bad thing? The American Addiction Centers seem to think so with this broad claim: “Like other positive, life-affirming behavior—eating, exercising, and falling in love—sex can become an addiction if the need for sexual gratification begins to take precedence over the needs, responsibilities, or values” (emphasis mine). AAC suggests that sex is “life-affirming behavior,” which certainly separates it from drugs and alcohol, and yet still asserts that sex can be addictive. Thanks to the reach of today’s media, many fear this concept. Fear and shame weigh down their sexual desires and too many believe they must control these urges, be the master of them rather than the other way around. Many seek treatment. But sex addiction is a question not easily answered.

Socializing Sex: Pornography on Twitter

Socializing Sex: Pornography on Twitter

In the ever-changing world of social media, Twitter has remained unique. This platform combines the influencer fame of Instagram with the dialogue and anonymity of Reddit or Tumblr, while still reaching a wider age range than other sites. Unlike its similar platforms, Twitter has remained somewhat unfiltered; it’s no secret that X-rated content is easily accessible there. This comes as a stark contrast from sites like Instagram and Facebook, which take a hard stance against adult content, removing posts and banning users who attempt to share it. Twitter has also been reported as a major news source for its younger users, attributed to its real-time release of information from multiple sources. This uniqueness is where Twitter has gained its popularity, but with increasing Internet regulations and the trends of other social media sites, will it remain this way for long?

Of course, Twitter is not the only site to have accessible pornography, but what sets it apart is its simultaneous influencer platform. Twitter boasts a high percentage of celebrity users, both those of established fame and those who gained popularity from their accounts. For this reason, the site draws fans who feel intimately connected to their favorite person. This close contact between celebrities and fans can potentially blur the lines of appropriate relationships, especially considering the age difference.