The Psychology of Group Play and Partner-Sharing
The Psychology of Group Play and Partner-Sharing with Dr. David Ley and Expert Guests!
Group play and sex with people other than a person’s main partner are, far and away, the most common sexual fantasies for everyone. Although monogamous relationships are idealized by Hollywood, therapists and religions, one in five people will be in a consensually nonmonogamous relationship in their lifetime. Why do so many people find these fantasies and behaviors so compelling and exciting? In this two-day conference, participants will delve into the history of group sex, nonmonogamy and cuckolding through many worldwide cultures. Dr. Ley will lead the audience through an exploration of the secret sexual history of hot group sex through the ages, then frame these sexual experiences within current psychological and biological research to better understand the role of these sexualities within individuals and cultures.
This conference is 100% ONLINE!
Learning Objectives:
Participants will identify the cultural, religious and political history of orgies, group sex and nonmonogamy in many worldwide cultures.
Participants define different forms of nonmonogamy, and how these relationships types evolve over time and between cultures.
Participants apply personality theory to peoples’ sexual fantasies and behaviors, developing an understanding of the functions these fantasies and behaviors play in their lives and psychologies.
An understanding of the secret history of female-led nonmonogamy is developed, along with ways to frame the modern rise of female-focused sexual relationships within feminism and female-empowerment.
On Sunday, May 18, 2025, we will have a panel of the hosts from the extremely popular podcast, Cuck My Life, discussing their experiences and motivations in seeking to be cuckolded by their wives.
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Expect real talk on everything from introducing the cuckold fantasy to your partner, to exploring chastity, pegging, FLRs (Female-Led Relationships), CBT (cock and ball torture), and more. Plus, they regularly sit down with prominent voices in the community to share stories, insights, and laughs. Whether you're deep in the scene or just a curious onlooker, this podcast invites you to explore, question, and connect.
SCHEDULE
SATURDAY, May 17th
START TIME: 10:00AM CST, 6:00 PM CST.
SUNDAY, May 18th
START TIME: 10:00AM CST, 6:00 PM CST.
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More PRESENTERS TBA soon!
ABOUT THE PRESENTERS:
Dr. David Ley
David J. Ley, PH.D., CST-S is a world-renowned clinical psychologist, known for bringing scientifically accurate and clinically sound information to discussions about modern sexuality.
He serves on the board of the Sexual Health Alliance as an expert advisor and is an internationally recognized expert on issues related to sexuality, pornography, and mental health.
He has appeared on television with Anderson Cooper, Katie Couric, Dr. Phil, and others. He has been interviewed in publications ranging from the New York Times, Washington Post, LA Times, and the London Telegraph, to Playboy and Hustler magazines. Dr. Ley has published extensively in both the academic and “pop” realms of literature. His latest book, Ethical Porn for Dicks, A Man's Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure has endorsements from Dan Savage and Pornhub.com and is a humorous and provocative handbook for men who want to think more comprehensively about porn.
The Myth of Sex Addiction (2012) and Insatiable Wives (2009) were revolutionary explorations of sexual issues which blended a powerful client-centered narrative with a rich understanding of psychology, biology, and sociology.
DR. Zhana Vrangalova
Zhana Vrangalova, PhD, is a NYC-based sex and relationships consultant, speaker, and writer focusing on sexually adventurous lifestyles. She holds a PhD in Developmental Psychology from Cornell University, teaches Human Sexuality courses at New York University, and has published academic research on casual sex, sexual orientation. Dr. Zhana is the creator of Uncensored with Dr. Zhana, a unique format for open, honest conversations about sexuality and relationships in a globalized world. She recently launched Open Smarter, an online course helping people make smarter decisions about their relationship choices using their unique personality. Follow her on Twitter, Instagram, or Facebook as @DrZhana
GUY Pasculli
Guy Pasculli is a psychotherapist with over 25 years of experience supporting individuals, families, and adolescents through major life transitions and emotional challenges. He believes in the deeply personal nature of psychotherapy and works to build a strong, trusting relationship with each client to help them move through emotional crises and foster lasting change. Guy is currently a student at the Sexual Health Alliance, continuing his professional growth in the field of sex therapy and education.
Dr. Laurie Bennett-Cook
Dr. Laurie Bennett-Cook is a graduate level Clinical Sexologist. Specializing in non-monogamy and kink, it is through counseling, workshops, and hands on, experiential exercises, she assists others in achieving the level of sexual function they desire. She enjoys the study and research of not only what people are doing sexually, but how they feel about it.
Dr. Laurie divides her time between Palm Springs, California, and Salt Lake City, Utah. In addition to seeing clients in either of her offices or via zoom, she serves on the board of Sex Positive Los Angeles (SPLA) and one the advisory board for the non profit Sex Positive World (SPW).
Rounding off her work, she has been trained by the International Professional Surrogate Association (IPSA) as a Surrogate Partner Therapist, working with clients and therapists in a triadic model to aid in bringing clients comfortable with their sexual selves. She can be heard in several podcasts and she is frequently contracted as a consultant for media projects for MGM, Epix and Netflix.
Her knowledge and expertise is not just from academia but also through lived experience. Laurie and her husband have been in an ethically non-monogamous relationship for over twenty years. During their marriage she worked at the Wild Horse Brothel, the upscale sister house to the famed Mustang Ranch, where she gained a keen insight into what really goes on behind closed doors when people feel safe to reveal their inner most fantasies and desires. The topics she teaches and lectures on are those she is familiar with both professionally and personally.
Dr. Laurie can be reached at DrLaurieBennett-Cook@gmail.com
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This event is eligible for a maximum of 14 CE hours.
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