Why is sexual orientation the most valued aspect to consider when thinking and expressing our sexuality? This raises the question if the way that we construct sexual/romantic preferences is adequate for all of the elements that are part of them. This is something that the academic Sari Van Anders addresses in her Sexual Configuration Theory, which is an alternative to thinking or constructing sexuality that maps more dimensions to construct a person’s sexual or romantic interests. In this article, we will go over the main points of SCT for anyone interested in learning an ingenious and fresh way to explore sexuality.
Gender isn’t binary, but sex isn’t either
The belief that sex is binary, meaning there are only two possibilities, can be challenged since not every person falls into the description of the phenotypic characteristics of female and male, where a series of variations exists across different levels. These biological elements can combine in multiple ways, resulting in the rich spectrum that is human biology, a notion that challenges the simplistic dichotomy of biological sex as black and white.
Growth in the Sexual Wellness Industry: Is now your time to get in?
The sexual wellness space is poised to reach the staggering heights of $81.4 billion by 2028. This growth, up from $51.9 billion in 2021, as reported by The Insight Partners in September 2022, underscores a profound evolution in how we perceive and prioritize sexual health.
What's your fantasy? Highlights from the Sexual Health Alliance Fantasy & Desire Around the World Event
Discover what entrepreneurs in the sexuality industry need to know at SHA Business School
The second cohort of SHA Business School begins in April of 2024! In the ever-evolving world of sexuality, entrepreneurs face unique challenges and opportunities. Whether you're looking to launch a groundbreaking product, start a therapy practice, or lead transformative workshops, understanding the intricacies of the sexuality industry is crucial. Enter the SHA Business School, a program designed for budding entrepreneurs in this specialized field, ready to lead you to success with its second cohort beginning in April.
Slippery Solutions: A Guide For Your Lubrication Needs
In this article, we will delve into the diverse landscape of lubricants, emphasizing the importance of choosing wisely. From potential allergies to avoiding uncomfortable situations, we will guide you through the nuances of lubrication, helping you make informed decisions for a smoother and more enjoyable experience. So, before you reach for that seemingly convenient household item, join us as we explore the slippery world of lubrication to ensure your pleasure is both safe and satisfying.
Academic Research Meets Accessible and Engaging Public Education with SHA’s Fantasy and Desire Around the World Event
Where to Find Sexual Academia
Desire Unveiled: The Science Behind My Top Three Sexual Fantasies
Let me buy you a drink: A feminist analysis on picking up a girl at the bar
The Psychology of Pain and Pleasure: Understanding BDSM Play
SHA’s Kinky Weekend Recap!
The Art of Thrusting: A Bellesa Thrust Sex Toy Review
’m always on the hunt for a new favorite sex toy to add to my collection. Masturbation is an essential part of my self-care routine and I like to switch my routine up regularly to keep things interesting. Recently, I’ve been looking for a new rabbit-style vibrator because my old ones just aren't doing it for me anymore. While they are iconic and still able to bring many folks to orgasm the experience has been feeling dull for me as of late. I love dual-stimulation vibrators but I always find myself wishing the internal element of my rabbit was able to better mimic the sensation of penetrative intercourse. When I stumbled upon the Bellesa Thrust I was hopeful that my desire would finally be fulfilled. I saw this tweet and immediately purchased the toy:
“Just used a vibrator that changed the trajectory of my entire life. I came like 5 times back to back. felt happiness in its purest form. went to heaven and maybe saw god? I understand human existence now,” (@jasminericegirl)
After using the toy dozens of times I’ll admit that while I have come no closer to understanding human existence the Bellessa Thrust has changed my sex life for the better. It seems that the Thrust is on Cosmopolitan’s best vibrators list for a reason. This blog is my honest (not sponsored) guide to the ins and outs of Bellesa’s Thrust!
Round-Up of SHA Resources: Consensual Non-Monogamy
Resource Round-up of SHA resources about Dr. Justin Lehmiller and learning about sexual fantasies
Navigating Sexual Identity after Faith Transition
A shift in religious identity during adulthood is becoming increasingly common. A recent study by the Public Religion Research Institute reports that one in four Amerians were previously followers of another religion than the one they affiliate with now. This represents an increase from the 16% of Americans reported in 2021 (Religion and Congregations in a Time of Social and Political Upheaval, PRRI: ). Changes in religious perspective can prompt a reexamination of all aspects of one’s life: professional, political, and familial. Since one’s sexuality can often be closely tied to a religious practice, faith transitions may create unique challenges as adults navigate a shifting sexual self.
When Anger Knocks on your Sex and Relationship Door
Being human with consciousness—that is, having feelings, thoughts, and memories—means once in a while we will feel anger, frustration, and anxiety in our relationships. It is nothing to feel ashamed and guilty about! The more you form distinctive relationships, the more you’ll get to explore the different faculties of your emotions—including anger and pain. You might find yourself or your partner(s) displaying anger in different ways and motions, both in sexual and non-sexual situations. When this happens, the best thing to do is to take the anger out for lunch, sit with it, and dig into the “whys” and the “hows.” The real challenge is not to stop yourself from feeling these emotions; instead, it is about learning to control and cope with the challenging situations you find yourself in. So, if you relate to experiencing discomfort when it comes to handling anger and frustration in your unique sexual experiences and relationships, I’d say keep on reading…
Sex Therapy With Erotically Marginalized Clients
One of the things I’ve witnessed at the SHA events I’ve attended is how often this organization introduces people—who are often already professionals—to ideas that they have never before encountered. Truthfully, some of this information should be required learning before someone can become a certified therapist, but it’s not. SHA fills a void (especially with their certification programs) to introduce their students and attendees to information that will better help them assist their clients in a sex-positive and safe way. However, these programs and events may not be accessible to everyone, and you can’t always replay a webinar when you need some guidance.
Lady with a Whip: History of the Dominatrix (Part 2)
From its origins in the ancient Fertile Crescent, the Dominatrix archetype continued to invigorate culture through the medieval period into the 19th century. The ancient goddess worship of Inana and Artemis Orthia had been violently oppressed as patriarchal religions and concepts of private property came to dominate society. Despite this, the dominant woman archetype persisted in art, literature, and erotica. From a brave knight jousting for his fair lady’s honor, to a governess disciplining her young wards, the Dominatrix archetype remained a constant theme in both art and fantasy.
SHA Certification Programs Explained
Sexual Health Alliance (SHA) offers a unique and radical curriculum that stands unparalleled in the field, designed to empower and transform those ready to dive deep into the complexities of human sexuality. Get ready to explore the multifaceted opportunities available through SHA, and how they can propel your career and personal growth to new heights.