It’s that time of year again when we start to think about what gift to get our special someone for the holidays! If you're anything like us, you may have difficulty thinking of what kind of gift to get them. Well, no worries—here are Sexual Health Alliance’s Top Gifts for the 2024 holiday season! From some educational books to the spiciest of toys, you are bound to find something on this list for you!
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Toys! Toys! Toys!
The Poco Gift Set from MysteryVibe
The Poco Gift Set from MysteryVibe will make you want to cozy up by the fire.
This gift set contains the revolutionary compact targeted G-Spot vibrator, Poco, beautiful sex position Playcards, and luxurious lube.
Why we love it: This set combines the high-quality we love from MysteryVibe in a ready to play gift set.
Price: $189.50
About MysteryVibe
MysteryVibe is the global leader in Women's & Men's Health devices. They bring together the best in medicine & engineering to create clinically-proven, FDA-II, FSA/HSA eligible devices that adapt to the user's body & deliver precise vibrations to address major dysfunctions.
The Oboo To-Go Travel Set
Your holiday travel doesn’t need to lack spice. Check out this Oboo To-Go Travel Set.
Why we love it: It’s fun, discreet, and has everything you need for a good time (with a partner or alone).
Price $129
About Oboo
Oboo offers premium sexual wellness and pleasure-focused self-care solutions for those of us in midlife. Why? Because midlife, perimenopause and menopause can throw us for a loop but its not going stop us from enjoying the more pleasurable things in life. We want to encourage you to embrace this stage of life with confidence, joy, and all the self-love and intimacy you deserve. Your body’s still full of magic, and Oboo is here to help you tap into it. Oboo. Rediscover you.
Lube is Your Friend
SUTIL Rich Water-Based Lube
The adult holiday toys and spicy fun are incomplete without some lube! Try Sutil Rich, a long-lasting water-based lube. Sutil Rich is a condom and toy-safe while still being thick and non-sticky. It doesn't leave any residue, either!
Why we love it: This lube does it all! It’s Ph balanced for both the anus and the vaginal ph at a 6, making it perfect for menopause. It also contains Hyaluronic acid for long-lasting hydration and postmenopausal moisturizer. On top of that, it has anti-inflammatory aspects to help support your libido!!
Price: $19
About SUTIL
HATHOR/SUTIL, known for natural ingredients and purity since its beginnings in 1989, was concerned about parabens and harsh chemicals long before the “green revolution” hit the market place. HATHOR/SUTIL has supported organic farming and sustainable agriculture by importing organic and wild crafted essential oils from small farms around the world.
Uberlube Silicone-Based Lube
Another fantastic option for lube is Uberlube! Uberlube comes in a classy glass bottle with a pump for accessible single-hand use. This silicone-based lube is compatible with latex and polyisoprene! It also includes Vitamin E to leave you feeling soft and moisturized. This lube also comes in a good-to-go traveler-size bottle with refills so as not to waste any packaging.
Why we love it: The best part is it contains no water, so it doesn't have a pH or Osmolality; this is ideal so as not to throw off anyone’s pH balance!
Price: $19.99
About Uberlube
Uberlube continues to batch, test, and bottle überlube in their Chicago-area facility. Überlube remains a family owned business experiencing world-wide growth without comprosing their original values. Their goal is still to enhance joy and pleasure in customer's lives.
The Ultimate Gift for a Traveler
Study Abroad with SHA!
In 2025 SHA is studying abroad in FOUR amazing locations! Sexual Health Alliance's Study Abroad program provides a cutting-edge, transformational, and fun sexuality education experience. Led by Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a Harvard Award-winning educator, this advanced program offers an immersive experience with educational excursions and cultural insights.
Price: $1,597
Why we love it: It’s the ultimate gift for any sex nerd who also loves to travel! Students get to learn about sexual health in other countries, have fun experiences, and hang out with other people who are just as excited about this topic as they are!
A Monthly Surprise with Arya
Arya: The Couples Platform
If you want to spice things up and try new activities with your partner, Arya is the perfect option! Take their short quiz and receive a customized box of items to explore. You will receive a special box of goodies, readings, and short videos with educational materials and new content areas to accompany your hand-selected items. Play out your scenes and lose yourself in your steamy little box!
Price: $189.95 for 6 months! (less than $32/month)
Why we love it: If you need help throughout your membership, there’s a real person on Arya’s team waiting to guide you. It doesn’t get more VIP than that!
Read more about what SHA thinks about Arya here.
About Arya
At Arya, we recognize the profound role intimacy holds within a couple's shared journey. Our aim is to gently pave the way for more effortless conversations surrounding it.
Learn Something New Together
The Adamo Method 9 Week Course
The Adamo Method empowers individuals and couples to enhance their intimacy and relationships through a versatile set of skills. It fosters confidence, communication, and emotional bonding while promoting consent and safety in intimate experiences. Participants learn to create more pleasure, sustain arousal, and ensure readiness for penetration to avoid discomfort. Designed for lasting impact, the method helps couples enjoy extraordinary intimacy and connection well into their later years.
Price: $349
Why we love it: We love the Adamo Method because it empowers individuals and couples to cultivate deeper connection, pleasure, and confidence in their intimate lives. Its focus on communication, consent, and emotional bonding makes it a transformative approach to lasting, extraordinary relationships.
About Adamo
At Adamo, we believe in the power of love to heal and promote overall well-being through a holistic approach to sexual wellness. Join us on our journey towards a future where love is celebrated and individuals thrive in their relationships.
Gift a subscription to OMGYES
An OMGYES Subscription is a truly unique gift for any woman. With this subscription, you gain access to 12 different techniques. To achieve pleasure, strategies focused on mental, clitoral, and communication, and much more. Explore yourself with all new tips and tricks with this subscription.
Price: $49- $75
Why we love it: Everything is based on scientific research and first-hand accounts! You can see animated and actual hands-on demonstrations!
About OMGYES
OMGYES is an entirely new way to explore fascinating, useful and fun information that’s been uncovered in new research. Let’s lift the veil and take an honest look at the specific ways women actually find pleasure.
How About a Movie Rental?
Rent a Movie on Make Love Not Porn
Make Love Not Porn, also known as MLNP, is an amazing subscription service anyone would be thrilled to receive from their partner. Every tantalizing video on the site is hand-selected by MLNP to ensure it is 100% consensual, contextualized, and cliche-free. Every creator receives half of your monthly bill when you select their video to rent. So get your partner a subscription and have some fun while watching together.
Price: $10 - $50
Why we love it: Creators are real-world couples having real-world sex; you can even submit your creations for posting!
About Make Love Not Porn
In 2009 Cindy Gallop spoke at TED about her direct personal experience of technology’s impact on our sex livesand launched makelovenotporn.com. You responded. Young and old, of every gender, straight, gay and every which way, from every corner of the world you said ‘Me too,’ and ‘Yes,’ and ‘More.’ This is for you. All of you. Of the people, by the people, for the people, makelovenotporn(dot)tv is you in all your #realworldglory
For Any Book Lovers
Anatomy of Desire by dr. Emily Jamea
If your partner is an avid reader, get them the book Anatomy of Desire by Dr. Emily Jamea. Author Emily Jamea writes about sexual satisfaction and the key to good sex! She believes everyone is deserving of an incredibly satisfying sex. In this book, she shares what she has learned in her fifteen years of practice as a sex therapist to help increase your desire and pleasure. She uses research on the flow state of mind and applies it to your sexual practices to achieve your goals in the bedroom!
Price: $26.96
Why we love it: Emily Jamea was an incredible presenter at SHA’s 2024 Annual Sexological Conference!
About Dr. Emily Jamea
I am a seasoned sex and relationship therapist and USA Today best-selling author of Anatomy of Desire: Five Secrets to Create Connection and Cultivate Passion. I speak nationally and internationally to a diverse range of audiences including educators, health and mental health professionals, executive and corporate groups, and the general public. My expertise has been featured in Oprah Magazine, CNN, USA Today, NBC, and more.
Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters--And How to Get It by Dr. Laurie Mintz
Another fantastic book we recommend is Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters by Laurie Mintz! In this book, we are pushed to think about sex differently. Laurie talks about the pleasure gap between men and women, why this is, and how we can change that within our relationships. She includes sections on cultural and historical perspectives on the female orgasm, anatomy, proven techniques for cliterate sex, and a comprehensive chapter for men. She corrects misconceptions and myths about female orgasm and sex that have disconnected our sex lives for generations.
Price: $15.80
Why we love it: Dr. Laurie Mintz was one of our amazing presenters at SHA’s 2024 event “Keeping the Spark Alive”!
About Dr. Laurie Mintz
Dr. Laurie Mintz is an author, therapist, speaker and emeritus professor whose life’s work has been committed to helping people live more authentic, meaningful, joyful—and sexually satisfying—lives. She is the author of two popular press books—both written with the aim of empowering women sexually and both with published studies demonstrating that readers enhance their sexual functioning.
A Little Something For the person who loves sensation play
Lovense® Gemini: App-controlled vibrating nipple clamps
Take your nipple clamp game to the next level with Lovense’s Gemini. Gemini is an app-controlled vibrating nipple clamp! With the Lovense remote app, you can control not only the pressure of the clamps but also the vibrations. You can clamp this onto any body part, not just the nipple.
Price: $139
Why we love it: This toy is perfect for long-distance romance or simply making house chores a little more fun!
About Lovense
Since 2010, Lovense has not only revolutionized intimacy through technology; we have also created an environment where every gender, age, and body type can fulfill their sexual wellness.
At Lovense, we believe in a world where pleasure knows no bounds.
Put a ring on your favorite penis owner with firmtech
The FirmTech TechRing and MaxPR bundle
The FirmTech TechRing is a revolutionary smart erection ring that is easy to use and can be worn during sexual activity to enhance pleasure, as well as overnight to gather objective data on your sexual health.
The MaxPR Ring provides longer-lasting erections and more intense orgasms. Designed for men for who want a tight fit to maximize hardness. The MaxPR is FirmTech’s tightest ring.
Price: $295
Why we love it: The TechRing and MaxPR Ring are great ways to enjoy more pleasure with solo or partnered time with no medications needed. AND you get to collect vital information about yourself or your partner! We also love things that come in a discounted bundle!
About FirmTech
Designed By Doctors – For Better Health & Better Sex! With FirmTech we can empower men and their health care providers with objective data about their sexual health.
Celebrate connection, curiosity, and care this holiday season!
As the holiday season approaches, finding the perfect gift doesn’t have to feel overwhelming—especially with SHA’s curated list of thoughtful, educational, and spicy presents! Whether you’re adding a new favorite book to your partner’s collection or turning up the heat with something bold, there’s a gift here for everyone. Remember, the most meaningful gifts celebrate connection, curiosity, and care. Don’t forget to check out the surprise treat at the end—it’s our way of sharing a little extra joy this holiday season. From all of us at Sexual Health Alliance, happy gifting and happy holidays! 🎁
P.S. Don’t forget to put yourself on the list!
Don’t forget to give yourself a gift that keeps on giving! Earn your certification as a sex therapist, educator, counselor, or coach with Sexual Health Alliance in 2025. Contact us about how you can gift yourself a SHA certification program (or gift one to someone you love)! Email us at shacertifications@gmail.com and learn more about our programs here.