Updated: March 5th, 2024
We’re pleased to be in the third year of our international study abroad program with Dr. Justin Lehmiller as our guide. Dr. Lehmiller is our international study abroad advisor and has been providing sexceptional education and trainings to the Sexual Health Alliance for over seven years now. We look forward all that we have planned for the next seven! Will it be another book, a new country to explore or something entirely different? Follow us and join our email list to find out!
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Our Sexceptional Lecturer, Dr. Justin Lehmiller continues to outstanding praise and media coverage. Since 2018, he has been on a world tour with the Sexual Health Alliance to deliver trainings to all types of professionals in Denver, CO, Austin, TX, Dallas, TX, Los Angelos, CA, Chicago, IL and Seattle, WA . Visit our Events tab at the top of the page to find all upcoming events!
TELL ME WHAT YOU WANT by Dr. JUSTIN LEHMILLER Media Coverage
Major features (print and online)
The Wall Street Journal
https://www.wsj.com/articles/new-research-delves-into-sexual-fantasies-1529936957
The Daily Mail (U.K.)
NUVO (Indianapolis paper)
De Morgen (Begium newspaper)
Bustle
https://www.bustle.com/p/the-7-most-popular-sexual-fantasies-according-to-4000-americans-9615180
Mel Magazine
https://melmagazine.com/americans-crave-group-sex-fc57e932b3ae
Livestrong
https://www.livestrong.com/article/13713594-the-most-popular-sexual-fantasy-americans-have/
The Sunday Times (U.K.)
Psychology Today
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/standard-deviations/201807/fantasy-island-research-probes-the-science-sexual-desire (book review by Michael Aaron)
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/stepmonster/201807/what-we-think-about-when-we-think-about-and-have-sex (Q&A with Wednesday Martin)
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-myths-sex/201807/where-do-our-sexual-fantasies-come
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/201807/the-politics-cuckolding (post by Dr. David Ley)
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-matters/201811/new-research-might-be-able-predict-your-sexual-fantasies (post by Ari Tuckman)
Herald Sun (Australia)
The Sun (U.K.)
https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/6671001/six-common-sexual-fantasies-revealed/
https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/6757293/two-year-sex-survey-brits/
https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/7562703/sexual-fantasies-personality/
Daily Mirror (U.K.)
https://www.mirror.co.uk/lifestyle/sex-relationships/sex/top-6-most-common-sexual-12839475
https://www.mirror.co.uk/lifestyle/health/how-improve-your-sex-life-12895401
Bild (German tabloid)
goop
Metro (U.K.)
https://metro.co.uk/2018/07/07/seven-common-sexual-fantasies-7690384/
The I (U.K.)
https://inews.co.uk/opinion/the-deeper-psychological-needs-behind-your-sexual-fantasies/
The Independent (U.K.)
VICE/TONIC (book excerpt)
https://tonic.vice.com/en_us/article/evk8ae/how-to-stop-feeling-guilty-about-what-you-want-in-bed
USA Today
Republished in the Battle Creek Enquirer (Michigan) in print
Ask Me Anything on Reddit (July 10)
https://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/8xr09r/i_am_justin_lehmiller_a_research_fellow_at_the/
New York Journal of Books (review)
https://www.nyjournalofbooks.com/book-review/tell-me
Naked at Our Age by Joan Price (review)
http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/2018/07/tell-me-what-you-want-by-justin.html
The Atlantic
https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2018/07/sexual-fantasies-justin-lehmiller/565547/
The Indianapolis Star
Republished in USA Today: https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/nation-now/2018/07/19/kinsey-institute-sex-researcher-sexual-fantasies/800581002/
Republished in Cincinnati Enquirer: https://www.cincinnati.com/story/entertainment/arts/2018/07/19/kinsey-sex-doc-most-common-sexual-fantasy-america/786609002/
Republished in Louisville Courier Journal: https://www.courier-journal.com/story/entertainment/arts/2018/07/20/most-common-sexual-fantasy-america/807749002/
The Cut
https://www.thecut.com/article/what-its-like-to-be-a-sex-researcher.html
CNN
https://www.cnn.com/2018/07/24/health/sex-fantasies-kerner/index.html
Republished in CNN Chile: https://www.cnnchile.com/tendencias/esto-es-lo-que-tus-fantasias-sexuales-dicen-sobre-ti_20181020/
Chicago Tribune
Republished in Arizona Daily Star: https://tucson.com/lifestyles/balancing-act-americans-no-sexual-fantasy-survey-says/article_a1af8470-daec-56cf-880f-620e7c39ec7d.html
Republished in the Santa Barbara News Press (print only)
Of Sex and Love Blog (review)
http://ofsexandlove.com/tell-me-what-you-want
Boston Globe
Fatherly
https://www.fatherly.com/love-money/sex/sex-fantasies-common-desire-shame-research/
Men’s Health Magazine (print) – “Ask an Advisor” feature entitled “Reel Sex” published in the September 2018 issue
Romance Daily News
https://www.romancedailynews.com/trends
RealClearLife
http://www.realclearlife.com/books/americas-sexual-fantasies-laid-bare-new-book/
Yahoo Brazil
Broadly
https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/qvmynb/five-most-common-sexual-kinks-fantasies
Maxim
https://www.maxim.com/maxim-man/most-popular-kinks-in-america-2018-9
NUVO (online and in print)
Brides.com
https://www.brides.com/story/fantasize-about-your-partner
The New York Times (review)
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/10/17/books/review/tell-me-what-you-want-justin-lehmiller.html
Published in print on October 21, 2018
Huffington Post
Elite Daily
Politico (op-ed written by me)
Covered in Rolling Stone
Covered in Yahoo
https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/republicans-democrats-divided-sexual-fantasies-182845074.html
Covered in Yahoo News UK
https://sports.yahoo.com/left-wingers-right-wingers-different-sexual-fantasies-124251689.html
Covered in Indy100
Covered in IFL Science
Covered in LGBTQ Nation
Covered in Inquisitor
Covered on The Late Show With Stephen Colbert
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3neoZaTEUeM&feature=youtu.be
Information (Danish newspaper)
Glamour Paris
The California Therapist (book review by Dr. Marty Klein in the September/October 2018 issue)
http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8054e4ab#/8054e4ab/80
Book review by author Piers Anthony in his HiPiers newsletter (November 2018)
http://hipiers.com/newsletter.html
Forthcoming:
Cosmo – book will be featured in Sex Q&A (October). Will also be mentioned in January issue in a piece on fantasies
Psychology Today (print edition – they will be reprinting some of my blog posts about the book in the November/December issue)
Playboy (German Edition) - November
Radio, Podcasts, and TV
Savage Lovecast – interview with Dan Savage on July 3, 2018
https://www.savagelovecast.com/episodes/610#.Wz5GgWaZPUJ
Sex with Dr. Jess Podcast – interview on July 6, 2018
https://www.sexwithdrjess.com/2018/07/what-do-your-neighbors-fantasize-about/
Pleasure Mechanics Podcast – July 13, 2018
Talk Louisiana – July 18, 2018
http://wrkf.org/post/wednesday-june-18th-roger-villere-bruce-herschensohn-justin-lehmiller
Airtalk (NPR and KPCC) – August 6, 2018
You: The Owner’s Manual (Radio MD) – August 7, 2018
http://radiomd.com/show/you-the-owners-manual-radio-show/item/38100-ep-907b-improve-your-sex-life
The Psychology Podcast with Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman – recorded August 22, 2018
https://scottbarrykaufman.com/podcast/the-science-of-sexual-fantasies-with-justin-lehmiller/
Covered in Scientific American: https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/beautiful-minds/podcast-recap-october-2018-sexual-fantasies-dna-habits-and-perfect-timing/
Her podcast (Radio MD) – recorded August 23, 2018
http://radiomd.com/show/her/item/38121-sexual-fantasies
Me Time with Frangela (Television program) – August 23, 2018 and October 23, 2018
Science of Sex podcast with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova – recorded September 26, 2018
https://scienceofsexpodcast.com/42-what-your-sexual-fantasies-say-about-you/
Doctor Radio (Sirius XM) with Dr. Virginia Sadock – October 1, 2018
Savage Lovecast (second appearance) – recorded on October 9, 2018
https://www.savagelovecast.com/episodes/626#.W89E0i-ZPUI
Tell Me Everything (Sirius XM) – Interview with John Fugelsang – October 16, 2018
Sex with Emily podcast – October 23, 2018
http://sexwithemily.com/26352-2/
Sexology podcast with Dr. Nazanin Moali – recorded November 2, 2018
http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2018/11/13/sexual-fantasies-justin-lehmiller/
The Ersties Podcast (based in Berlin, Germany) - November 13, 2018
Sex with Strangers podcast – November 13, 2018
BBC Radio – Sex Takeover – November 20, 2018
Why Are People Into That?! Podcast – December 10, 2018
Book Mentions (not specifically about the book, but mention the book)
Cosmo
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a20967150/dry-orgasm-no-ejaculation/
Playboy
https://www.playboy.com/read/how-should-we-think-about-forced-sex-fantasies-in-the-era-of-metoo
VICE/TONIC
https://tonic.vice.com/en_us/article/7xqq4g/women-short-orgasms
IO Donna (Italian women’s magazine)
Prevention
https://www.prevention.com/sex/a21969931/sex-addiction-signs/
Metro (UK)
https://metro.co.uk/2018/07/23/people-call-sexual-partners-daddy-7747622/
Quartz
Women’s Health (Australia)
https://www.womenshealth.com.au/what-to-do-sexless-marriage
Queerty
Chicago Tribune (online and in print)
Patch.com
Bustle
https://www.bustle.com/p/morning-sex-may-make-you-more-productive-a-new-survey-says-11460888
The Science Advice Goddess - column by Amy Alkon
(Syndicated in about 100 newspapers, many of which are print only)
https://www.creators.com/read/advice-goddess-amy-alkon/09/18/codger-and-me
NUVO
The Advocate (October/November print issue and also online)
https://www.advocate.com/love-and-sex/2018/9/21/what-do-adults-fantasize-about#slide-0
The Atlantic
https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2018/10/premarital-cohabitation-divorce/573817/
Mel Magazine
https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/why-were-all-so-thirsty-for-blood
https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/the-enduring-appeal-of-the-erotic-maid
Toronto Sun
https://torontosun.com/life/relationships/why-do-men-send-unsolicited-d-pics/amp
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