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Special Edition Sexceptional SAR: Sexual Attitude Reassessment

An AASECT-Approved Sexual Attitude Reassessment (SAR) for Sexuality Professionals

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Join Sexual Health Alliance online for a dynamic, experiential Sexual Attitude Reassessment (SAR) designed for therapists, counselors, educators, coaches, healthcare professionals, and others working in sexual health.

Led by Dr. David Ley, Kelvin Pace, and Heather McPherson, this interactive SAR explores the beliefs, values, attitudes, and biases that can shape how we understand human sexuality, relationships, pleasure, and sexual health.

Through guided reflection, small-group discussions, breakout sessions, media, experiential exercises, and role-play, participants will have opportunities to examine their own perspectives in a supportive and inclusive learning environment.

Why Attend SAR?

Sexuality professionals work with people whose experiences of sexuality can be shaped by shame, stigma, cultural expectations, moral conflict, mismatched desire, and differing beliefs about pleasure and relationships.


This SAR creates space to thoughtfully examine those influences while developing greater self-awareness as a sexuality professional.

Over the weekend, you'll explore:

  • Personal attitudes and beliefs about human sexuality

  • Sexual shame, stigma, and cultural influences

  • Sexual differences, taboos, and social expectations

  • How personal values can influence professional practice

  • The relationship between sexuality, pleasure, and well-being

  • Ethical and inclusive approaches to sexuality-related conversations

  • Your own experiences, assumptions, and biases surrounding sexuality

What You'll Experience

This isn't a traditional lecture-based training.

The SHA Sexceptional SAR is an experiential learning experience that combines:

  • Interactive discussions Explore complex sexuality topics with fellow professionals.

  • Small-group dialogues Participate in guided conversations in a supportive environment.

  • Experiential activities Use reflection, media, exercises, and role-play to examine your own perspectives.

  • Self-reflection Create space to consider how your beliefs and experiences may influence your work.

  • Expert facilitation Learn alongside experienced sexuality professionals and educators.

What Is a Sexual Attitude Reassessment (SAR)?

A Sexual Attitude Reassessment (SAR) is a structured, process-oriented group experience that encourages participants to examine their own feelings, attitudes, values, and beliefs about human sexuality and sexual behavior.

Rather than simply learning about sexuality, participants are invited to reflect on how their personal experiences, culture, education, and beliefs may influence the way they understand and work with sexuality.

For sexuality professionals, this self-awareness can be an important part of developing an ethical, inclusive, and non-judgmental approach to working with clients, students, and communities.

Who Is This SAR For?

This online SAR is open to professionals and students interested in expanding their understanding of sexuality, including:

  • Sex therapists and therapists

  • Sexuality counselors

  • Sexuality educators

  • Sex and relationship coaches

  • Healthcare and medical professionals

  • Mental health professionals

  • Sexuality and sexology students

  • Professionals pursuing SHA and/or AASECT-related training

You do not need to be enrolled in a Sexual Health Alliance certification program to attend.


SCHEDULE

Friday, November 13

Saturday, November 14, 2026


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SAR & AASECT Certification

An AASECT-approved Sexual Attitude Reassessment (SAR) may fulfill the attitude/values training component associated with AASECT certification pathways for sexuality educators, counselors, and therapists.

SHA's SAR is designed to provide an experiential environment for exploring personal attitudes, values, and beliefs surrounding sexuality.

Important: A SAR is one component of the broader AASECT certification process. Completing a SAR does not itself constitute AASECT certification, and applicants should review AASECT's current requirements for their specific certification pathway.



Join SHA Online

Join Sexual Health Alliance for a transformative, experiential weekend designed to help you deepen your sexual self-awareness and grow as a sexuality professional.
Whether you're pursuing sex therapy, sexuality counseling, sex education, coaching, or another professional path in sexual health, this SAR offers an opportunity to learn, reflect, connect, and challenge the assumptions that shape our work.

Come curious. Leave with greater self-awareness, new perspectives, and connections to a global community of sexuality professionals.


SAR FACILITATORS

DAVID LEY, PH.D. CST-S

David Ley is a clinical psychologist in practice in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He earned his Bachelor's degree in Philosophy from Ole Miss, and his Master's and Doctoral degrees in clinical psychology from the University of New Mexico. Dr. Ley is licensed in New Mexico and North Carolina, and has provided clinical and consultative services in numerous other states. He is the Executive Director of New Mexico Solutions, a large outpatient mental health and substance abuse program in Albuquerque, NM. Dr. Ley also serves on the advisory board for the Sexual Health Alliance.

Dr. Ley has been treating sexuality issues throughout his career. He first began treating perpetrators and victims of sexual abuse, but expanded his approach to include the fostering and promotion of healthy sexuality, and awareness of the wide range of normative sexual behaviors. Insatiable Wives is his first book and won a Silver Medal in the Foreword Magazine Book of the Year contest for 2009. Dr. Ley wrote Insatiable Wives following two years of interviews with couples around the country. His controversial second book, The Myth of Sex Addiction was released in March 2012, challenging the concept of sexual addiction and exploring a different model of male sexuality. The Myth of Sex Addiction triggered a firestorm of debate, allowing people to finally challenge the media hype of this pseudo-disorder. His new book Ethical Porn for Dicks, A Man's Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure is due out in Summer/Fall 2016. Dr. Ley may be contacted via email through the Psychology Today website.

HEATHER MCPHERSON, MA, LPC-S, LMFT-S, CST-S

Heather McPherson is the CEO and Founder of the Sexual Health Alliance, a premier education and certification provider for sexuality professionals. Heather also founded Respark, a national brand that encompasses a group therapy practice, Respark Foundation Nonprofit, and ReSpark Retreats. Respark Therapy & Associates (respark.co) is a group practice that serves Colorado, Washington and Texas specializing in sexuality and relationships. She is published in Playboy Magazine as well as Playboy Online, and has been featured on CNN, HuffPost, Rolling Stones, SheKnows, Quartz, Bravo, the Body, the Sun, Sex and Psychology with Dr. Justin Lehmiller, Psychology Today with Dr. David Ley, Parent Harald, and more. Heather McPherson has lectured at prestigious universities including University of Texas at Austin, Texas State University, University of Utah, University of Colorado Denver and Governors State University in Chicago. She is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Supervisor, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist Supervisor (LMFT-S) and a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor (LPC-S). She also is the Texas Section Leader for AASECT (American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors & Therapists). She has appeared on several podcasts including Loveline with Dr. Chris Donaghue as well as Sex with Dr. Jess. Heather helps clients gain confidence, rebuild trust, increase playfulness, and find passion and meaning in their erotic lives. Heather graduated with honors from Texas State University with a MA in Marriage, Couple and Family Therapy; a CACREP Accredited Program.

Kelvin Pace, MS, LPC-S, CST-S

Kelvin serves as a SHA Supervisor and is also the owner of KpaceCounseling, LLC where he serves clients in private practice. He does contract work with Full Spectrum Health as a behavioral health clinician where he works with an integrated care team delivering evidenced based care to persons of the LGBTQ+ community. Kelvin has worked for a local non-profit delivering mental health services to children and young adults that have suffered from complex trauma. With a firm foundation in trauma, he delivers trauma informed sex positive therapy to his clients. Kelvin provides services to couples and individuals dealing with sexual or relationship issues that include low desire, anxiety surrounding sex, and infidelity. His current focus is on mindfulness based interventions to manage sexual concerns and he works with persons that are either in or looking to explore non-traditional relationship orientations that fall under the umbrella of consensual/ethical non-monogamy.

AASECT Notice: Any events put on by the hotel are not for AASECT CEs credit and are not a part of the AASECT CEs  training. Casual dress  is required during CE classroom time. This event includes various events that are optional and not part of the Advanced SAR for AASECT CEs. If you need AASECT CEs* for certification or renewal, this is your chance.  Lodging and flights are not included and will be the responsibility of the participant.

Please note there are two separate “events” included. The event with AASECT CEs* includes classroom time, lecture, media and group discussion. The rest of the experience/weekend is through SHA only as we are holding space for students to attend and/or observe optional extra curricular events and will provide time to process those experiences. These additional and optional events are not for credit through AASECT, nor a part of AASECT CEs*. 

Note that your spot is not confirmed until we have formally approved your application and we have received your completed informed consent signed packet. In alignment with AASECT SAR guidelines, during the administrative and educational period, sexual behavior between students and facilitators is prohibited. Any sexual interaction between students and facilitators is prohibited by AASECT.


WANT TO BECOME SHA CERTIFIED?

Imagine completing your Certification in Sexology (and including your AASECT application) in a fraction of the time—saving hundreds of hours—while gaining every CE you need, all in one place. When you become SHA Certified, you’re not just checking boxes; you’re joining a global community of sex educators, counselors, coaches, and therapists who are shaping the future of sexual health.

Instead of piecing together conferences one by one and hoping they align with International standards or the (US AASECT requirements), you can enroll in SHA’s Sexuality Educator / Counselor / Coach / Sexology / Sex Therapy Certification Program, where every training is intentionally curated, tracked, and streamlined to support your AASECT path. No guesswork. No overwhelm. Just a clear, supported journey from start to finish.

As an SHA Certified professional, you’ll gain:

  • Access to a thriving global community of practitioners and leaders

  • Expert faculty, mentorship, and guidance every step of the way

  • Exclusive SHA trainings, tools, and support you won’t find anywhere else

  • A complete, organized portfolio for international associations (including AASECT-aligned hours)

If you’re ready to take your sexual health education further—and become truly sexceptional—apply to become SHA Certified today. Your future clients (and your future self) will thank you. Apply HERE.



*This program meets the requirements of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) and is approved for AASECT CE credits. These CE credits may be applied toward AASECT certification and renewal of certification. Completion of this program does not ensure or guarantee AASECT certification. For further information please contact ce@aasect.org

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